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Written by Ms. Boogie
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The only advice column that spins both sides of the truth
Q: When’s the right time to have sex with a man you’re dating?
Side A: Waiting until marriage may not sound appealing, but it’s an option that you should discuss with your partner. Sex involves alot more than pleasure, like pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, so you should share it with someone that you really trust and love. And you should share it, only when both you and your partner are ready, which is the right time.
Side B: Anytime is the right time, as long as you’re both ready and you both use condoms! There’s no set timeframe for sex. I know couples who had sex, before they became a couple, and they’re still together. And I know couples who had sex, after they became a couple, and they’re no longer together. Focus on your relationship with your partner and leave the societal standards outside your bedroom door.
Q: Why do men have such a hard time keeping it real with women? Wouldn't it be easier, if we all told each other exactly what we're looking for?
Side A: Yes, it’d be easier, if people were upfront about what they’re looking for in the opposite/same sex! Unfortunately, some guys just don’t care to be real. And that’s their problem. You should be concerned about what you bring to the table, how you conduct yourself with someone who interests you. If you’re honest, then chances are your honesty will be returned. If it’s not, move on, so you can be ready for the right person for you.
Side B: Oh please, girl! Why do women have such a hard time keeping it real with men? And yes, I answered your question with a question. Everybody keeping it real with everybody is fictional, but you should work on how you deal with the guys that you meet because that’s all that should matter to you. You can’t control what other people do, but you can control what you do and how you do it. Trust, when you keep it real, you’ll attract people that do the same.
– About Ms. Boogie:
Born a pineapple, bred an apple, and now, a peach, Ms. Boogie currently resides in Atlanta, GA. Besides writing, she also has an interest in radio broadcasting. You can find her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/joncierrienecker and/or follow her on Twitter @jrienecker. To submit a question to “On the Beat,” e-mail ms.boogierienecker@gmail.com.Born a pineapple, bred an apple, and now, a peach, Ms. Boogie currently resides in Atlanta, GA. Besides writing, she also has an interest in radio broadcasting. You can find her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/joncierrienecker and/or follow her on Twitter @jrienecker.
To submit a question to “On the Beat,” e-mail ms.boogierienecker@gmail.com.
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| Born a pineapple, bred an apple, and now, a peach, Ms. Boogie currently resides in Atlanta, GA. Besides writing, she also has an interest in radio broadcasting. You can find her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/joncierrienecker and/or follow her on Twitter @jrienecker.
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