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What’s more important looks or personality?
People often say personality to be nice, but there is a slight chance that those people might be lying. I am no saint, I’m also aware that I won’t be gracing the cover of any magazines soon. Let us pretend that I had the option to choice between Gabourey Sidibe (Precious) and Jennifer Nicole Freeman (Claire Kyle from the TV series My Wife and Kids), I’d go with Jennifer and make all my friends jealous. Joking! I would rather have someone with a sparkling personality than just looks, mainly because based on my experience the one with the looks would only value me as a platonic friend.
It’s been scientifically proven and I’ve done the research, a person cannot be both physically attractive as say Nicki Minaj and be as intellectually stimulating as Oprah (let’s pretend she’s not rich). I don’t know why, I guess it’s nature’s way in keeping us balanced in some weird way.
Seriously, if you’d rather have looks then say so. No one’s going to label you as a superficial vain egotistic maniac. When you lie to people and say that you value personality more then looks, dummies like me believe that something, if anything could happen.
Personality isn’t all bad, although people won’t always be able to see this during first impressions, they will value your company more. However, people who have the greatest personalities aren’t always the most attractive. If you can find someone with looks and personality, hold on to them like there’s no tomorrow.
I want someone with looks but despite everything TV has taught me, money comes first then the Karrine Steffans types come along. ‘I’m not saying she’s a gold digger, but she ain’t messing with no broke n*gga.’
I’ll ask one more time, this time be completely honest with yourself. No one’s around, what’s more important looks or personality?
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| A.D. currently lives in Washington DC. As of now A.D. is a full time college student and freelance writer working with both Parlé Magazine as well as writing his own book at the moment. When he isn’t writing he enjoys music, reading, movies and poetry. "It's been a pleasure and an honor working with both Kevin and Parlé. I wish my fellow writers much success in their personal and professional lives. May writing bring the truth to light that my spoken words cannot say." Read More >> | |
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